Our Next Chapter...

The overwhelming amount of issues plaguing the disability community have buried me alive. The most painful of them come from supposed allies, people who wave bright banners of social justice only to throw the disabled under the bus when it really counts. Fighting against this kind of injustice has made me a lot of enemies, and frankly, I can’t do it in the same capacity any longer.

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Wheelchair Vlog: San Francisco Japantown Mall

Dear Sparkly Friends,

No doubt most of you follow me on Instagram primarily now. The end of 2018 (and my lapse in posting) was marked by big, happy changes. I moved into a lovely condo! Shortly after my last entry, things got incredibly busy and didn’t entirely settle down. Currently, I am visiting  Northern California helping out my beautiful girlfriend. Life seems as if it’s shifting from surviving to thriving little by little.

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Why I stopped Writing - The Truth

CW: Suicide

Dear Sparkly Friends,

Have I mentioned lately that I love you? Because I do, and I don’t say it enough. You’ve helped keep me afloat these past three years of...well, not silence, but...let’s say muffled screaming. There’s no way I can sugar coat it. It’s been Hell. No exaggeration, there were dark times that I questioned if, years before, I had been successful in a suicide attempt, and what I was experiencing was the likes of Annie’s fate in “What Dreams May Come.” Except, I was even more screwed because I died without marrying my soulmate, so I was just stuck there forever, in a nightmare-loop.

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